No, it is not okay to respond to your mother or anyone else in such a disrespectful or demeaning manner. Regardless of gender, responsibilities should be divided and shared fairly among all family members. Using offensive language or making sexist remarks is hurtful and disrespectful. It is important to treat others with kindness, respect, and equality. It would be good to apologize to your mother and engage in a more constructive and respectful conversation about shared household responsibilities.