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Hi y'all! I recently found out that I might be pansexual but I'm still not completely sure but I know that I've always had a side that likes anyone tbh- Anyways, there's this one girl in my school (I'm new though) and I really like her- or at least I think I do... my heart feels all jumpy when I think about her and I'm trying to talk to her but emm I'm not very good at socializing jaja (She's also quite popular and I feel disappointed that probably many girls and boys like her (I think)). Can you all give me tips on how to approach her or maybe know whether I might have a chance with her? I've never really been aided much when it comes to crushes so I'd appreciate it so much! Also- I don't know how to flirt- it would come in handy later so could you all help me? :)

Hi there! It's great that you're exploring your feelings and discovering your identity. Don't worry, many people feel the same way and it's completely okay to take your time figuring things out. Here are some tips to help you approach your crush and potentially build a connection with her:

1. Build confidence: It's normal to feel nervous, but try to build your self-assurance. Remind yourself of your positive qualities and focus on being comfortable with who you are.

2. Start with small interactions: Begin by engaging in casual conversations about school, common interests, or any shared activities. This will help you get to know her better and create an opportunity for a deeper connection.

3. Be genuine and kind: Show interest in what she says and be actively present during your conversations. Being genuine and kind will make you more approachable and likable.

4. Find common interests: Discover shared hobbies or activities that you can participate in together. This will give you an opportunity to spend more time with her and build a connection.

5. Be yourself: Authenticity is key. Trying to be someone you're not will only make you feel uncomfortable. Embrace your unique qualities and let her appreciate you for who you are.

Regarding whether you have a chance with her, it's difficult to say without knowing more about her feelings or situation. However, it's important to approach this with an open mindset and be prepared for any outcome. Remember, it's okay if things don't work out - crushes come and go, and there will always be new opportunities.

As for flirting, it's about expressing your interest in a playful and respectful way. Here are some simple tips:

1. Smile and make eye contact: Show interest and friendliness through your body language.

2. Compliment her: Let her know you appreciate something about her, whether it's her style, intelligence, or personality. But keep it genuine and not overly excessive.

3. Engage in light teasing: Playfully tease her in a lighthearted and friendly manner, which can create a fun and flirty atmosphere.

4. Use humor: Share jokes or funny stories to make her laugh and enjoy your company.

Remember, the most important thing is to be yourself and have fun with the process. Good luck, and I hope everything works out for you!

Hi y'all! I recently found out that I might be pansexual but I'm still not completely sure but I know that I've always had a side that likes anyone tbh- Anyways, there's this one girl in my school (I'm new though) and I really like her- or at least I think I do... my heart feels all jumpy when I think about her and I'm trying to talk to her but emm I'm not very good at socializing jaja (She's also quite popular and I feel disappointed that probably many girls and boys like her (I think)). Can you all give me tips on how to approach her or maybe know whether I might have a chance with her? I've never really been aided much when it comes to crushes so I'd appreciate it so much! Also- I don't know how to flirt- it would come in handy later so could you all help me? :)

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